Who is that?
I don't remember those people - are they new?
They look lost and confused.
I wonder if they'll come back. Most of these people don't.
The parable of the Spendthrift Child (or Prodigal Son), is about someone who asks for a share of the inheritance (as if the parent were dead) and goes off to spend the cash. Broke and probably lonely, the child doesn't think the relationship with the parnt can be mended, and so comes back just to be a servant.
We know that part, right?
And when the parent finds the child is coming home. the parent runs out to meet the child, and throws a party, killing the fated claf.
We know that part too, right?
And the older sibling, the one who never left the parent, the one who has been diligent all this time, is bent out of shape because the younger sibling gets a party for coming back from somewhere the child should never have gone in the first place!
Some of us remember this part. It's not as popular.
But what do we do when someone comes back into community with people of faith? Are we uncomfortable around them because we don't know them? Do we make up stories - speculate - about whether they're gay, straight, transgender, liberal, conservative, recent immigrants, married, living together, adopted a kid, previously divorced? Do we go out of our way to greet them warmly and leave it at that?
Or do we kill the fatted calf?
OK, some of you may not be big on bovicide, but can we throw a party? When we accept into membership someone who has been away from the church - especially if they're also being baptized - can we have a real celebration on a par with ordinations, birthdays, or (dare I suggest) weddings?
Granted, some people may not want the fuss made about them, and I'm not suggesting we embarrass people.
But can we not have the enthusiasm for those returning that the parent showed in thej parable of the Spendthrift Son? Can we not make a real effort to get to know our sibling who has been away so long? Don't we want to hear a story of what led the person away from faith, and what led the person back?
Who is THAT?
Maybe I'll go find out. It may be my brother or sister,
I don't remember those people - are they new?
They look lost and confused.
I wonder if they'll come back. Most of these people don't.
The parable of the Spendthrift Child (or Prodigal Son), is about someone who asks for a share of the inheritance (as if the parent were dead) and goes off to spend the cash. Broke and probably lonely, the child doesn't think the relationship with the parnt can be mended, and so comes back just to be a servant.
We know that part, right?
And when the parent finds the child is coming home. the parent runs out to meet the child, and throws a party, killing the fated claf.
We know that part too, right?
And the older sibling, the one who never left the parent, the one who has been diligent all this time, is bent out of shape because the younger sibling gets a party for coming back from somewhere the child should never have gone in the first place!
Some of us remember this part. It's not as popular.
But what do we do when someone comes back into community with people of faith? Are we uncomfortable around them because we don't know them? Do we make up stories - speculate - about whether they're gay, straight, transgender, liberal, conservative, recent immigrants, married, living together, adopted a kid, previously divorced? Do we go out of our way to greet them warmly and leave it at that?
Or do we kill the fatted calf?
OK, some of you may not be big on bovicide, but can we throw a party? When we accept into membership someone who has been away from the church - especially if they're also being baptized - can we have a real celebration on a par with ordinations, birthdays, or (dare I suggest) weddings?
Granted, some people may not want the fuss made about them, and I'm not suggesting we embarrass people.
But can we not have the enthusiasm for those returning that the parent showed in thej parable of the Spendthrift Son? Can we not make a real effort to get to know our sibling who has been away so long? Don't we want to hear a story of what led the person away from faith, and what led the person back?
Who is THAT?
Maybe I'll go find out. It may be my brother or sister,