We've
been in this new space for a month. How do you feel about being here?
Does it feel like home?
We're
probably going to have to establish some rules about this space. We
may need a wedding policy. We may need a policy on outside groups
using the space. But I'm going to suggest we keep the rules simple
and flexible. There's a place for
some sort of continuity and direction. But we sometimes complicate
things so much that the original purpose becomes obscured or lost.
In
Adult Quest, we've been seeing how Christian teaching has become more
complex over time. It seems every question the church has had needed
an answer, and every answer raised at least one more question. The
rejected answers became heresies (which means choices)
and the accepted answers became orthodoxy (which means right
teaching). After a while, the
accepted answers became required belief to be considered "Christian".
And being a follower of Jesus became more complicated.
The
author Isaac Asimov - the guy who wrote I, Robot
- wrote a lot of
other books. Among them is - I am not making this up - Isaac
Asimov's Treasury of Humor, in
which he categorizes hundreds of jokes.
Joke
number 465 goes something like this:
A
seminarian dies and appears before the judgment seat of God.
God
asks "what did you do in life?"
The
seminarian says "Holy One, I studied theology."
The
Creator smiles and says "Well done! Expound on a point of theology
for me!"
Unfortunately,
as is often the case in times of great stress, the seminarian's mind
goes completely blank. For what seems like an eternity, the student
struggles to remember a point worth making. Finally, the seminarian
says "I can think of no point of theology sufficient for Your
hearing, but if You will state a point, I will tell You how to refute
it."
It
has been said that to dissect a joke is to kill it. In this case, I
am less interested in keeping the humor alive than to see what's
happening here.
The
seminarian has reached the ultimate seat of wisdom. Having nothing
positive to say to the Creator about theology, this student could
have been humble enough to receive whatever wisdom God might provide.
Instead, this person chooses to find ways to complicate the simple
truth of the Almighty.
In
the Gospel lesson, we can see a similar thing happening. Jesus calls
out those who rejected John the Baptist - a man who fasted and
abstained from alcohol - by saying "He has a demon!", and
rejected Jesus - who feasted and drank - by saying "he's a
glutton and a drunkard!" These people had found excuses to not
repent. To them, it wasn't as simple as "The Messiah has come, and
offers grace and healing to all!" No, to them, it had to be a bit
more... complicated.
Two
thousand years later, we're still doing it.
A
UCC pastor told a story about her arrival at a congregation in the
Illinois South Conference. Among the things left by the prior pastor
was a thick binder of instructions for worship. Two pages, front and
back, were devoted to the proper way for the acolytes to light the
candles on the chancel - that's the space at the front of the
church. One day after worship, she heard sobbing in the narthex -
that's the room outside the sanctuary. She investigated and found one
of the acolytes crying. When asked why she was crying, the girl said
"I ruined worship!"
The
pastor could have just denied what the acolyte said: "no, honey,
you didn't ruin worship", but instead asked, "Why do you think
you ruined worship?" The girl replied "I snuffed out the wrong
candle first!"
The
pastor replied "I don't think anyone noticed - I certainly
didn't".
This
pastor might have just said "those rules don't matter", but that
would not have been true. Those rules - put in place by the prior
pastor, typed up and published in a binder, practiced to the letter
for years, with admonishment for those who violated them - did
matter. They mattered to the acolyte, who was driven to tears by
forgetting which candle to snuff out first. They mattered to others
who had been conditioned to believe that this complex set of rules
were required for worship to happen correctly.
Rules
can hurt.
There
were two things the pastor had to do:
First,
she had to offer grace to the acolyte. Whether justified or not, the
acolyte's experience
was one of sin, of falling short, of ruining things for everyone.
That experience could only be addressed with grace.
Second,
the pastor had to dismantle the complicated structure that had
created the situation. She moved the congregation to more simplicity
and versatility.
I
had a friend named Mike who came up with the term "the
complicators". Complicators were people who could take any problem
and complicate it so it was harder to solve. They could take any
solution and complicate it to make it harder to implement. And they
could take any implementation and complicate it until people just
gave
up.
I like Mike's word. I think, at
one time or another, most people are complicators. Why do we - and
I include myself here - complicate things?
One reason might be fear of the
unknown. We have to think of everything that could happen, and
address each one. I don't think it's a bad thing to think in terms of
"what if?" But not every "what if?" needs a solution.
For example: "What if the Pope
is visiting our church - how should the acolytes address him?"
The unlikeliness of a Papal visit to Hope UCC in Naperville means we
don't need to solve this in advance. Should it happen, we can invest
the time and energy at that moment.
Another example might be "what
happens if the wrong candle is put out first?" Unless there's an
issue of safety - for example, a need to reach over one candle to
snuff the other - it really doesn't make a lot of difference which
is put out first.
Another reason may be to protect
ourselves. I do not know the motives of the pastor who created the
big binder. But if worship did not go exactly as planned, one might
defend one's self by pointing out that the rules were in place, and
it was the responsibility of others to follow the rules.
Yet another reason may be
avoidance. I have been on committees charged with putting together
events. In some cases, one or more people kept finding issues that
complicated how the event would go. Eventually, it became so
complicated that those same individuals declared the event
impossible. The complication became an excuse for inaction.
Returning to our Gospel lesson,
who was following Jesus? Mostly the poor, powerless, and those who
were not the most learned about the law. Jesus' followers included
women, who - at that time - were not taught the law.
This is not to say there were no
religious leaders who followed Jesus. The Gospel according to John
(different John than the one in the reading today) mentions Nicodemus
as one who supported Jesus. But more often, these leaders were
challenging Jesus with complicated riddles, such as "If a woman's
husband dies, and his brother takes her as his wife, and he dies, and
this repeats through a dozen brothers, and she dies childless, who is
her husband in heaven?" Jesus' simple answer? Heaven's not like
that - she would not belong to anyone.
Jesus had simple, flexible
solutions to problems. Someone is blind? Heal the blindness. Someone
has leprosy? Heal the leprosy. Imagine if we had a health care system
like that.
We have a crowd of hungry
people? Feed them. No complication of "what if some of them are not
needy enough to be fed?" Jesus feeds the crowd without doing
validation of need. Imagine if we had an emergency food program like
that.
Of course, we need rules and
laws to function as a community and as a society. But when we're
making these rules, we ought to make sure they are working toward our
goal rather than running from fear, shifting blame, or finding a
reason to give up.
Above all, let us not make our
rules burdensome - not on our leaders, not on our volunteers, and
especially not on the ones we serve.
So I'm asking us all to use this
next week to notice the rules we encounter: those of the USA,
Illinois, and our local counties, townships, cities and villages; of
Christianity; of the national setting of the United Church of Christ,
Illinois Conference, Fox Valley Association, and Hope Community UCC;
and of our workplaces, families, and our selves. Examine these rules
and see whether they are focused on addressing an issue or based in
fear. We may find ways to reduce the complication in our lives.
And while we're at it, let's not
complicate the requirements to be in community with each other.
Jesus said "Take my yoke upon
you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you
will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is
light."
Let us not make it more
complicated than that.